“People are not interested in your fake morality – they are interested in status and power. Be clear on what you wish to demand from life” – Nadia Arain
One thing I have often come to repeatedly face in life, is that running away from the truth; doesn’t bode well for anyone. The trouble is, no matter how educated or rich many are – they can still be made a fool out of. That has certainly been evident over the last few years, sadly.
People generally have a naive tendency to trust a very-well presented facade/image a person puts out. This is due to the fact, that many simply are unable to think for themselves.
Their minds are trapped in a child-like state.
Most people are grown-up children, they’ve simply never made it to adulthood. Abuse, neglect, and, trauma – often does that to a person. It takes a remarkable amount of inner work on yourself – to get yourself to a balanced mental./emotional state where you’re actually an adult.
It also – as I have often said, takes facing REALITY. Most are incapable of doing so.
The reality is most parents do not deserve to be parents because they never bothered to heal themselves from THEIR parents. The result is millions of crippled people through emotionally immature and retarded parents; who instead of supporting and loving them, have damaged them beyond repair.
When a person is prey (and prey never knows it’s prey), their fake morality will always pop up.
It is a story as old as time – it is like the fake independence “independent” women protest about not allowing a morally and sane minded healthy man to ease the financial pressure off them – to be more of a woman (more feminine, in a sense). They believe their money matters to a man (matters to the losers and scum, of course – as they would like to rob you of it), when for a proper man – he’s least interested in it. He is there to provide.
The challenge of facing the reality of life, is that there is no where to hide. Better days will not come, until you create the better days yourself. Most people live in a smokescreen of denial because even at a certain age, with children – they are merely a child themselves. Their career/reasoning capacity; can be grandiose – as those skills are not emotional. However emotionally, most people have the comprehension of a 14 year old.
Realities of life, are simply not easy nor are they pleasant.
Most – due to their cognitive and psychosomatic afflictions, can only face life by being coddled (because again, child). This is why you have people making dumb (costly) mistakes, you have people going left. Healing the brain here is KEY – something both things like EMDR and healing magick do. The brain and the Central Nervous system – have a “patterning” (if you wish), that commands the BODY to behave in a certain way. Healing is both mental and somatic, otherwise, you will come up short.
One of the things that assists you to face reality quickly, is travelling. Travelling places you in a state of the unknown meaning that it is going to help you pick up courage in your neural pathways – simply because you have to. There is no doubt in this. It can be generally overwhelming for a person to travel, let alone a person charting their own way in life – after experiencing so much.
Facing life means that most people (predominantly in Western society), do not care about good things such as Love, Empathy, and, Kindness. That is why they go quiet when you mention it. They aren’t even emotions people have ever experienced, so the only thing they truly know – is how to be nasty to others.
Firstly, they don’t get WHY you’d care about something like this because when you’re mean and selfish, why would you? Secondly, a light goes off in their head putting a bookmark on you to make you an easy target to bully/dominate – because your “niceness” will make excuses for their behaviour as it, often does.
As Western nations are effectively industrial (and have been broken down so much at present), there is less room to roam around freely in a way that non-developed nations have. Everything is (literally) built up, and so the rules are tighter. People are far colder and meaner with their resources, less friendlier – and everything is a power grab. Different countries have different rules, different people have different rules.
Unfortunately – what people tell you in their virtue signaling to who they really, are – are 2 different people. You will come to find the higher you go up in society, your manners and your presentation counts. The lower you go into society, the more your violence, aggression skills, spatial ability, and, ability to be cruel – counts (as you’ll desperately be needing it, for survival)
People are unwilling to accept this as reality because they have not faced life at different social stratas.
There is a reason people have a “people face” and a “private face”.
It all adds up.
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