Fluidity. The sway of Seduction, Passion, Ecstasy.
I learned from when I was younger, that I did not want to do “boring coaching” for anyone.
I am not knocking coaching as an enterprise, as a business, as an income generator, and as a lifestyle. Before someone gets on their high horse and wants to tear my tongue out because they think I called their vocation, “boring” . Because I am fully aware, we live in a triggered society where everyone wants to attack anyone where they even breathe incorrectly. So there’s, that.
I asked 2 Spirits I worked with aside Belvia, my main Spirit Guide, who were lovingly encouraging, viciously powerful, and empowering on WHAT to offer women. I initially started out wanting to offer women “something to do with strength”, but had no clue where to begin. I was healing in my deprogramming after djinn depossession and dark black magick, and was busy writing out the answers of TRUTH that I wanted to know. My Family. My Friends. My Life Mission. These 2 spirits didn’t hold anything back, I asked questions, and at every juncture, I cried and screamed — learning the truth of a destroyed life and felt peace and rage well up in me, at one go. I saw incredible amounts of hope for a new life, a life where I would help millions upon MILLIONS of people who came to me and have the power to destroy those who destroy the innocent.
Satisfying & Orgasmic.
This new life, was no joke. I saw a completely shattered and broken life, and most people do NOT survive what I have endured. So THAT is my GLORY. I am alive despite what I have been forced to endure. With that knowledge in mind, I set out to create a STEEL SLAT EMPOWERMENT STRUCTURE that not even the best industrial strength dynamite could blow up, or break. And I, trialed that dynamite, just to make sure. I even tried Magickal Plutonium, after the dynamite miserably failed. to blow up Spartanite. It failed even harder.
I gleefully rubbed my hands, and got down to business with a storehouse of said plutonium…
“I do not want to offer women boring coaching. Everyone and their dog, is now some coach. TELL ME WHAT TO OFFER THEM”
“WHAT YOU WILL OFFER WOMEN, IS THE MAGICIAN.”
The beings decided to answer my questions in Tarot. I am fluent in reading the Tarot, as though it were adding spice to rice, and it confused me. The Magician? It’s a masculine card? Magick? I was lost for months. I know the Mage, heralds the saying AS ABOVE, SO BELOW. Okay so cool. Teaching women Spiritual Principles, to align with the Material. Nice. Now what?
THE MAGICIAN SPEAKS OF LEADERSHIP, DRIVE, PERSONAL AGENCY, SELF EMPOWERMENT; THE ABILITY TO SHOW PEOPLE IT CAN BE DONE. TO STAND UP AND WORK, TO FIGHT, TO HAVE THE IRON RING MENTALITY, TO BE BOLD, TO APPROACH LIFE LIKE A LION OR A LIONESS. TO BE SOVEREIGN. TO IMPLORE JUSTICE IN A SICK WORLD WHERE NONE EXISTS. TO RECLAIM YOUR BIRTHRIGHT OF FREEDOM, WEALTH, AND POWER.
TO BE YOU.
Now, I have a tonne of respect for coaches, some of them are phenomenal, however most are not. Most are not really living up to the potential. It’s become a cash cow game, to make some fancy programme, then enrol people, then do this, that–whatever. BORING. I still wished to dispense advice, but the type of guidance that is a cross between a momma lioness tending to her newborn cub playfully in the wild., and a General in the war room, ready for battle.
God, perhaps may have mercy upon the enemy. I do not.
The Dark Feminine, is wild, savage, and yet she is refined, eloquent, ladylike, beautiful, graceful, and, mannered, as and when required. It is wise for a woman to curtsy with elegance in her pretty pink dress, and lick the blade of a knife; as time calls for it.
I found my home in mentoring.
As an Aquarian, I am an alien in this world. I often go to restaurants and eateries by myself, observe people, and wonder how normal people behave. Strange concept. There is nothing normal about me and due to my exceptionally unique perspectives, some bright and lovely sparks nominated me in 2017 for an award for Best Mentor For The Year in the Lioness Awards. I won it. I appreciate whomever you are immensely and the change I brought to your life. 🙂 It was unexpected, but an accolade I am grateful to have obtained in my arsenal.
Coaching has significant goals. It has this, that, and it works really well. What annoys me personally, is when I see so many people who have ZERO AGENCY AND ZERO LEADERSHIP pretending to know anything about coaching or leading someone in any format, or shape. Coaching is meant to be something upon which there are set goals, not just “well here is my fancy programme for X amount of thousand without real change”. I know some REAL coaches with power, and I respect the fuck out of them immensely. It’s a hard run.
Finding a REAL MENTOR is hard. I should know. I have had 2 real ones, and both of them, I found through happenstance. One I thought was a scam, he turned out to be a multi-millionaire in the Asia-Pacific global market through many avenues in Business, Realty, Licencing. The other, advising Fortune 500 companies and consulting for some of the biggest corporate names one can imagine.
I have hired coaches over the years, and NONE of them stood out, the way 2 MENTORS stood out to me. At one point, I even wondered if I would ever be able to find someone who was able to guide and lead me in a sense to encourage me to play at the real Spartanite level, I am required to play at, by understanding my whole entire life story, and not feeling sorry for me. When I found him, I stuck to the relationship like glue, and made every endeavour to show up, stand up, and be there — to receive the knowledge.
I remember the time when he said to me “Nadia, just stop being lazy and dream bigger. You have a duty to yourself, and to every single person who needs your help to play in the Major Leagues, stop hurting yourself by remaining small. You’re not an average woman, don’t even pretend to be. Your Spartanite is of tremendous value to those who see value. Some will see it and go right past it because they desire superficiality. That is on them. Not you. You want to help women, you will. You want to help men, you will. You’re fair to the men who come to you and I like that about you.”
I found him to be the very first man in my new life, who saw me for who I really was, and am — not to mention what Spartanite is. I respected him and still very much do.
In Mentoring, one does not just pay X amount and get this. Mentoring is a VERY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP, a relationship where one sharpens one’s self upon the blade of excellence, and the transference of wisdom. Mentoring is one of the hardest endeavours to undertake, because unlike coaching, where it is only pay to play, mentoring digs deep and forges a bond over years, perhaps decades, to embolden someone to the BEST of their playing capacity. Mentoring is not for the faint hearted. You’re tested, no matter how great you think you are, to break into a new level, so you’re able to fulfil the mission calling further.
I, endeavour that any single person I mentor, goes onto find their OWN personal success, a success only THEY can have. I do not endeavour a woman to look at me thinking she wants to be a Spartanite, I want her to be a Spartanite in her OWN way. Her own walk, her own talk, her OWN brand.
I endeavour a man to be a Spartanite MAN, in his own way, a man courageous, capable, and strong; of achieving the life that many men are not willing to stand up for. A man who marches to the beat of his own drum, a man willing to be an Emperor among Kings. The King of Kings.
Coaches are performance based, mentors are greatness based. Both work equally well, however…
….Only you choose what you desire.
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