For a person to achieve a concrete result on something in life, you must DEMAND for it to appear.
I had a client ask me the other day “Why can’t I just make the money that I want in my business?” —to which I replied “You are not serious about the process in acquiring it”. She looked at me funny.
I had to explain, that most people think they are committed to something, when in actual fact—they are only committed 3/4ers of the way.
The Law of 77 — as someone I know, once called it.
Which is the very reason, that BOLDNESS, alone is an Occult Force. Occult Power, is simply hidden power. It is simply the power that most people do not have access to, because they do not believe it even exists for THEM, in the first place. Most people think I am SUPER intense, but truth is–I am really not. I am just COMMITTED 110% and I dealt with my “fear” of it “not working out” a long time ago. Do I still have doubts on things? Sure. I am human. That is the normal part of the human experience, and I encourage you reading this, to make peace with it more.
What concerns me, is when people choose NOT to be bold about a situation.
If you owe someone an apology, and you haven’t given it to them, DO IT. Pick up the damn phone, write that email etc. Own up to the fact that you acted like an asshole and you’re not only here to apologize but to FIX things. It takes big balls to apologize, to start with. I ensure I apologize QUICKLY when I am in the wrong, because the more time passes, the more cowardice sets in. Apologies are game changers—they give the person the power to create a NEW OPPORTUNITY.
Boldness, is something that is an acquired taste. So many people live their life running away from pain, and the question WHY, can be begged to be asked? Pain ennobles man. I surely learned boldness through immense struggle and pain, and also doing things I DIDN’T want to do. Working on the days, I’d rather sleep, cooking on days I didn’t have the strength to stand in the courage etc etc.
It is better by noble boldness to run the risk of being subject to half of the evils we anticipate than to remain in cowardly listlessness for fear of what might happen — Hetrodotus
THINK ABOUT THIS. YOU CAN TAKE…EVERYTHING…AWAY FROM A CHAMPION AND THEY WILL GAIN IT ALL BACK FASTER THAN THE AVERAGE PERSON CAN WALLOW IN INDECISION. DROP THE NAKED IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE AND THEY WILL SURVIVE. THEY WILL SOON THRIVE. FROM THE INNER TO THE OUTER. BOLDNESS IS AN OCCULT FORCE THAT PULLS WHAT YOU DESIRE TO HAVE TO YOU AT LIGHT SPEED.
Boldness, is a MAGNETIC AURA. It is a skill that is developed, sharpened and refined through adversity. I always think of bold, as a man whom you’re with, who is really into you, and boldly fucks you, like a lion would. No if’s, no buts — sticks you up on a wall, kisses you, undresses you and takes what’s HIS. Winning 2 Lioness awards personally taught me that Boldness is a character trait always in demand.
Call it. Sit with it. Fuck it and BE IT.
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